the weekend and things that go together

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tomatoes + fresh mozzarella + basil + olive oil + balsamic vinegar


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meat + a grill


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dinner + the deck


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me + him


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these rocks + a wheelbarrow + my arms and legs (okay Carl helped too). we moved them from our neighbor's yard to ours. wonder how it's going to feel tomorrow?


Three friends


these girls + laughs


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april + tree blossoms


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this salad + my mouth!


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a beer (bought for you by your friend because "it matches your hair") + a porch swing


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yellow scarves + yellow sandals 


Ian in the bath


ian + the bath (all this playing outside can really get a boy dirty!)


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emma + her tether ball + all the neighbor kids-- we've become very popular


And me + you. Thank you for coming here so often and reading- even the boring parts. Thank you for letting me be real and honest. Thank you for encouraging me. Thank you for every word that you've typed to me. Technology is so great. Thank you for being close even though we may be far apart.

between 8:00- 9:00am

 


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Oatmeal for two.


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Ian leads the way.


Morning walk


We walk a little.


Morning walk bending down


He loves the drains.


Morning walk dropping rock


The "kerplunk" sound that the pebble makes when it hits the water below cracks him up.


Morning walk chat


Me explaining the difference between a pebble (found on street edge) and the gigantic river rocks (found in our neighbor's landscaping). Bigger rocks= bigger "kerplunks". You can't blame him for trying.


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Picking chives.


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Not enjoying the onion-y taste of chives.


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The rhythm of our day is changing. We are spending more time outside, and earlier too. In fact, sometimes we barely make it through breakfast before we throw something under or over or jammies and head out. Oh man, Ian loves it. Loves it. He is so much happier exploring, getting dirty, and just roaming around.


It's warming up and things are turning green-- at about 1500ft elevation I guess it takes a little longer. I'm not good with patience, but you already knew that. You'd be proud of the way I've vowed to settle down and just play it cool-- greeting Spring with nonchalance. "Oh, it's you? Huh. I'd forgotten that you were out there somewhere. Temperatures in the low 70s? Eh, take it or leave it."  That's a total lie. I'm afraid it's been quite the opposite. The verbs "hunting down" and "pestering"  and "begging" come to mind. And after yesterday (when I bought some tomato plants) I'm afraid I might be rushing it. I really only have one pace. Fast. It gets me into trouble.


My brain is a bit muddled. I've been distracted all week...in a good way-- the best possible way (read: lots of amazing ideas and images floating through my brain but not much productivity coming out.)  I know that you were hoping to hear my whole diet/exercise spiel. It's coming. I promise. I just don't have it all together yet. In the mean time...go watch this. So, so awesome! (I cried.)

hair

I'm not done feeling weird with all this blathering on about all my grooming...but I do get lots of questions/comments/emails about my hair. Okay then here we go...


I have very thick, naturally wavy hair. It isn't straight. It isn't curly. Just wavy. Which means that I have to do something with it or the frizz just overtakes me and it's bad. I am, unfortunately, not a "wash and go" kind of girl. In fact, when I tell Carl that "I just need to wash my hair and dry it real quick before we go anywhere" he rolls his eyes with impatience knowing that I'll be at least another 45 minutes. "At least" (he just repeated when I read this out loud to him).


My hair is cut in long layers so that I can easily go from curly to straight. I also have to have it thinned. A lot. By the time I'm done with a haircut there is usually a huge pile of hair on the floor.  I've cut bangs a couple of times...but I'm such a "tucker" (behind my ear) that they tend to drive me nuts. Naturally I'm a dark blonde. Right now I have quite a bit of red in it. I'm really loving the red. I'm keeping it for a while.


I love experimenting with different shampoos. Right now I'm using Redken Color Extend. It's nice but I'm not married to it.


Hair


Whether I plan to straighten it or encourage curls,  I always use some kind of serum on my towel dried damp hair. This is working, I've also really liked Fekkai. I know it looks expensive, but a little goes a long way. It lasts forever.


Here's where I make a decision. Curly? or Straight?


For curly I slather it with at least a quarter sized dollop of gel. It seems like the cheaper ones work better. I'm using Pantene now.


After getting the gel evenly on my hair, I twist it into thick sections around my finger then scrunch.  I let it mostly air dry.


The trick to drying it the rest of the way comes with a diffuser.


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You have to have one of these bad boys. I don't even attempt curly hair without it. Gotta have it. I bend over and dry my hair upside down with it.


To touch up any frizzy spots I use a wand. There is a slight learning curve with these, but once you get it, it's easy. I think that a wand makes curls look so much more natural than an iron. 


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When I want my hair straight, I also let it mostly dry. Then I flip over and blow dry upside down again and use a flat metal brush to pull it straight. Then I stand back up and use a round metal brush to add volume in the crown and flip the ends. Occasionally I'll use a flat iron, but the brushes usually do the trick. I use a bit more serum to smooth it out and then spray it a bit with hairspray. Again, nothing expensive


Once styled I can usually go 2-3 days without washing it again. It's coarse enough to really resist getting too greasy. I guess that's one thing I have going for me.


That's all.  I love this blog for great hairstyle ideas.


Okay answering more questions soon (hopefully) about how I've lost 20lbs since Jan 1. Warning: there are no gimmicks-- maybe even a little blood, sweat, and tears.